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August 30, 2007

Complex Watches are da Bomb

I have been shopping in stores and online for a new watch for a couple of weeks and found some amazing Complex Watches. Designers Felix Baumgartner and Martin Frei of Urwerk, a watch design company out of Geneva, have designed some very out of the mainstream timepieces. I bought a great Fossil watch a couple of years ago but wearing the same thing everyday gets monotonous. So now I am torn between getting a TAG at Moody's or one of these conversation starters.

Pictures by Urwerk.com

August 28, 2007

And yet another Republican Busted in the Restroom

Capitol Hill newspaper Roll Call is reporting that Sen. Larry Craig (R-Idaho) was arrested in June at a Minnesota airport by a plainclothes police officer for lewd conduct complaints in the airport's restroom. Craig pleaded guilty to the charges on Aug. 8th in which he tried to solicit the male undercover airport investigator for sex in one of the airport's men's restroom stalls.

 

 

Rest of the Story with Roll Call

August 27, 2007

Monday Morning Humor - Kathy Griffin on Ann Coulter

Ann Coulter's name came up a couple of times during this last Sunday morning's TV viewing and I can't think of anyone better than Kathy Griffin to give us a refresher on her. Read my review of the Tulsa Kathy Griffin concert and get ticket and tour info for her live show.

August 23, 2007

Oklahoma Gay Dance Club Angles Closes after 25 Years

The Boom Boom Room in Laguna Beach, California is not the only historic gay club to close its doors this summer. Twenty five years ago Oklahoma City gay dance club Angles blazed a pathway in a very homophobic state for the LGBT community. This Saturday August 25th the trendy club will be serving its last customer. Angles was voted in the top ten state wide for dance clubs 10 years in a row by the Oklahoma Gazette. The popular dance club stood the test of time and beat the odds to become the cutting edge must go to club in OKC for two generations of both gay and straight dance club patrons. Allowing both homosexual and heterosexual dance and club goers to mix in a common environment and have fun over 25 years the club impacted acceptance and the coming out of the Oklahoma gay community. Hats off to a good run!

For further reading and the story on how the club started visit GayPartyBlog.com

70 Year Anniversary of the US War on Marijuana

Some facts about the U.S. Governments now 70 year War on Marijuana

In 1937 the F.D. Roosevelt administration crafted 1937 Marihuana Tax Act the first national US law making cannabis possession illegal in the US via an unpayable tax on the drug.

The Controlled Substances Act of 1970 classifies marijuana as a Schedule I drug, meaning it has a high potential for abuse and no accepted medical use. Under the Supremacy Clause of the Constitution, Federal law in the United States preempts conflicting state and local laws.

In the U.S. someone is arrested for marijuana possession every 42 seconds

The United States incarcerates more of its citizens for drug violations than all of Western Europe incarcerates for all crimes (and Western Europe has 100 million more people).

In 2004, 44.2 percent of the 1,745,712 total arrests in the US for drug abuse violations were for marijuana -- a total of 771,605. Of those, 684,319 people were arrested for possession alone.

Current Federal law (1994 Crime Act) sets the threshold for a possible death sentence for marijuana offenses at 60,000 kilograms (132,277.36 pounds) or 60,000 plants (including seedlings) regardless of weight. The death penalty is also possible for running a continuing criminal enterprise that distributes marijuana and receives more than $20 million in proceeds in one year, regardless of the weight of marijuana involved.

In the wake of the 9/11 terrorist attacks, the US Government spent $4 million to run two controversial 30-second ads linking drug use to terrorism during the 2002 Super Bowl, angering even longtime allies like the Partnership for a Drug-Free America.

The most recent figures available from the Office of National Drug Control Policy (ONDCP) indicate that, in 1999, federal expenditures on control of illegal drugs surpassed $17 billion; combined expenditures by federal, state, and local governments exceeded $30 billion. The US Government has spent roughly this amount annually throughout the 1990s.

All of this over a plant that has been around since the dawn of man that fed us, clothed us, provided us with oils, ropes and entertained us by the nighttime fires for most of our existence on the planet. Do any of these figures seem civilized in a country that is suppose to cherish individualism and freedom or does it seem more like the actions of a government gone mad?

This leads me to announce the 10th anniversary of the Midwest Cannabis Revival 2007 being held in Joplin, Missouri on September 22nd!

Nornl

 

 

August 21, 2007

Oklahoma and Same Sex Couple Adoption, Down with the Oklahoma Adoption Invalidation Law

Last week the Oklahoma Department of Health decided not to appeal the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals decision to uphold a lower court ruling that struck down an Oklahoma constitutional amendment, the Adoption Invalidation Law. The Oklahoma law was described by legal scholars as being so severe it had the potential to make children adopted by same-sex couples in other states legal orphans once arriving in Oklahoma.

The 2004 amendment sparked a national debate. Lawmakers in Oklahoma essentially stated that no other states' court of law was capable of determining if a same sex couple is able and qualified to adopt and be joint legal guardians of a minor. In their final ruling the Court of Appeals stated, "We hold that final adoption orders by a state court of competent jurisdiction are judgments that must be given full faith and credit under the Constitution by every other state in the nation,"

In the real world far departed from the realm of The Oklahoma State Legislature and State Department of Health on this issue, according to the 2002 US Census 33 percent of female same-sex couple's households and 22 percent of male same-sex couples households report at least one child under the age of 18 living in the home.

The American Psychological Association states in its findings:

"there is no scientific evidence that parenting effectiveness is related to parental sexual orientation: lesbian and gay parents are as likely as heterosexual parents to provide supportive and healthy environments for their children"; and "research has shown that the adjustment, development, and psychological well-being of children is unrelated to parental sexual orientation and that the children of lesbian and gay parents are as likely as those of heterosexual parents to flourish."

Last year the Canadian Department of Justice researched children of same sex couples but refused to release its findings until citizens demanded the report under Canada's equivalent of the Freedom of Information Act called the Access to Information Act.

The Justice Department findings stated:

The strongest conclusion that can be drawn from the empirical literature is that the vast majority of studies show that children living with two mothers and children living with a mother and father have the same levels of social competence. A few studies suggest that children with two lesbian mothers may have marginally better social competence than children in traditional nuclear families, even fewer studies show the opposite, and most studies fail to find any differences. The very limited body of research on children with two gay fathers supports this same conclusion.

Many right wing leaning bloggers have tried selling the old canon of the Republican Party that gay people are not people we are only an issue.  If any group of citizens is marginalized and dehumanized down to an issue instead of flesh and blood, laws like the one written by Oklahoma legislatures see the light of day. Along with other laws still facing minorities today the very spirit of our freedom and dignity is being washed away by our own government.  The evidence strongly contradicting the right wings political pandering to our country as to the competency and morality of gay Americans is mounting against them at a more rapid rate now than at any other time in our nation's history.

The following groups specializing in all aspects of child development and care have advocated the adopting or foster care of a minor by same sex couples:

American Psychological Association, the Child Welfare League of America, the American Bar Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the National Association of Social Workers, the North American Council on Adoptable Children, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Psychoanalytic Association, and the American Academy of Family Physicians

The professionals representing each agencies finding and decision to support adoption by same sex couples represent a vastly greater pool of experience to draw from to make this decision in contrast to that of any conservative blogger or politician trying to appeal to the fears and bigotry that still exist in our country.

Resources for further reading:

APA Online Findings and Studies of Same Sex Couples Adoption

Wikipedia LGBT Adoption and LGBT Parenting

Gay / Lesbian Friendly Adoption Resources

"Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends." ~ Maya Angelou

August 20, 2007

Some Tips for New Bloggers

This time last year I posted what turned out to be a pretty popular topic about the Do's and Don'ts of Blog Commenting. Looking at technorati.com from when I started blogging a little over a year ago the number of blogs has jumped from approximately 55 million blogs to over 77 million today. The upcoming Okie Blog Awards nominations started me reflecting on everything I have tried and changed on the blog in the past year.

Thankfully with the assistance of seasoned bloggers, many of whom are in my blog roll, I have avoided some of the worse mistakes one makes in the attempt to put out a blog. Initially for me the whole point of blogging was an exercise in writing, it is something that I have enjoyed from college but never made the time for since graduating. The past year I have gone from a pretty stiff blog trying to impress other with my writing to something that more resembles my personality and interest. My love and interest in film, science, photography, gay rights, various other topics and having a good laugh occasionally has come through over the past year writing and publishing T Town Tommy.

Anyone who invests time and it is an investment to do this well; their site starts to show the writers personality. The free flowing of information containing new points of view, current accounts of events and personalities on an instant global basis have made blogging the success it is today. I was doing some research on behind the scene improvements and found an article I wish was written when I had started T Town Tommy a year ago. For those who are new to blogging, trying to find your pace, or are an old hat in need of a refresher course on the basics of blogging I suggest reading dumb little man - tips for life. Though the writer keeps an insane schedule with only four hours sleep the tips and rules for the road of good blogging that he has learned putting out a top notch blog is priceless for success.

Monday Morning Humor - Morning Yoga

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Grimms Ugly Pictures

I'm at a loss for words on this one....

August 19, 2007

National Treasure - Book of Secrets

Nicolas Cage is back in movie theaters this December in the second installment of the sleeper hit "National Treasure". This time with the surfacing of a mysterious fragment of a manuscript linking the Gates family to a plot to assassinate Abraham Lincoln, Cage's character sets off on a new hunt to find the truth. In the process the film reveals more far flung conspiracies, cover ups and plots from our nations history. Enjoy the trailer! National Treasure - Book of Secrets

August 18, 2007

The 2007 Okie Blog Awards

This year has gone by so fast! To all my fellow Oklahoma bloggers, including my MySpace bloggers, the Okie Blog Awards nominations have started again for 2007. To vote for your favorite Oklahoma bloggers you must have a blog and have posted in the 60 days prior to August 17th and have at least one author who resides in Oklahoma. This is the third year for the state wide awards and is designed for the Oklahoma blogging community to recognize their peers in various categories of writing and publishing. To vote go to the official 2007 Okie Blog Awards web site for instructions and links to comprehensive guides of Oklahoma blog sites. Who knows maybe you will find a ton of new blogs in areas that interest you and impact your life! Exercise your freedom and go vote today!

UFO Caught on Camera over Haiti

Bogus film or the real thing? You decide, but here is a hint, look at the shape of the palm trees in the footage.

August 17, 2007

Merv Griffin was in the Closet

Reuters reported in a now yanked article from their web site that media mogul and entertainer Merv Griffin who passed away last Sunday of prostate cancer was gay. Griffin was divorced in 1976 and never remarried. Canada.com who is still running the Reuters story on Griffin's closeted homosexuality stated "the elephant that was his sexual orientation never really stopped following Griffin from room to room. He could duck it for a while, but it would always find him. It's disheartening that Merv had to die to shake it for good." Many who are reporting the story are criticizing his decision to be a staunch Republican Conservative supporter and not help the gay community during the Reagan Presidency years which marked the massive loss of life due to the emergence of AIDS. Up until his death he was long time very close friends with the Reagan family and Nancy Reagan. Griffin was also close with the current President, in a recent article in Rolling Stone he had this to say about Bush; ''Oooooh, I love him, yes,'' says Merv. ''He's funny, bright, intelligent and loves to have a good time."

The media in general skipped over reflecting or reporting on Merv's sexual orientation initially except for the New York Times. The most obvious question to ask in our modern culture was best stated by Ray Richmond who wrote the Reuters article:

Merv Griffin was gay. Why should that be so uncomfortable to read? Why is it so difficult to write? Why are we still so jittery even about raising the issue in purportedly liberal-minded Hollywood, in 2007? 

If you're Griffin, why would you think a judgmental culture would be any more tolerant as you grew into middle and old age? Even in the capital of entertainment -- in a business where homosexuality isn't exactly a rare phenomenon -- it's still spoken of in hushed tones or, more often, not at all. And Merv's brush with tabloid scandal no doubt only drove him further into the closet.

While it would seem everything has changed today, little actually has. You can count on the fingers of one hand, or at most two, the number of high-powered stars, executives and public figures who have come out. Those who don't can't really be faulted, as rarely do honesty and full disclosure prove a boon to one's showbiz livelihood.

My only response being that he started in the entertainment business that at one time was one of the most bigoted industries in the United States. The World War II Generation and the Baby Boomers expected a heterosexual ideal in their television and other mass media consumables. If he had started his career in 2007 his orientation could have very well be a promotional tool.

Merv Griffin will have a spectacular business and entertainment legacy however he will always have his obvious closeted sexuality and denials to follow him through history. From both my own early experiences and knowing married men in the closet and the damage it causes one cannot be sure if Griffin was truly happy. Both a $200 million dollar palimony lawsuit filed by his secretary/driver/horse-trainer/bodyguard and a Sexual Harassment lawsuit filed by 1980's television host of "Dance Fever" Denny Terrio against Griffin in 1991 raised the issue to a public level . Both lawsuits where dismissed but in court documents Griffin did not deny he was gay.

Regardless of his orientation thought Merv Griffin amassed a huge fortune in the entertainment, real estate and hotel/casino business over his 60 plus year career. One blogger is showing the 6.2 million dollar house that belonged to Griffin that is now for sale.  After creating Merv Griffin Enterprises, Griffin brought to television Wheel of Fortune and a new era of Jeopardy two of the most well known game shows of all time. He later sold his company and both shows for $250 million dollars. Griffin also went head to head with Donald Trump over ownership of the casino business Resorts International now owned by Bally's and later bought Paradise Island in the Bahamas for $400 million from Donald Trump but he took a bath on the Bahaman operation having to sell it for only $125 million.

I can say this about Merv Griffin and his sexuality, money may not buy happiness, but it can buy the type of misery you can live with. A complicated and successful entertainer he will be missed by millions.

August 15, 2007

Remembering Elvis

Young Elvis 1957 Rare Color of "Jailhouse Rock"

MEMPHIS, Tenn. - Thousands of Elvis Presley fans braved 105-degree heat as they wound down Graceland's driveway in a graveside procession Wednesday in advance of the 30th anniversary of the singer's death. 

The heat led to the death of a fan from New Jersey, a 67-year-old woman.

Despite the promise of another furnace-like day, some fans began lining up early in the morning for the candlelight vigil, setting up umbrellas and folding chairs on the sidewalk along four-lane Elvis Presley Boulevard. The memorial was expected to run through the night and into Thursday, the death anniversary.

More on the story with AP

August 13, 2007

Monday Morning Humor - California History

Do you know what happened this week back in 1850 in California?

California was preparing to become a state.
The State had no electricity.
The State had no money.
Almost everyone spoke Spanish.
There were gunfights in the streets.

Basically, it was just like
California today, except the women had real breast and the men didn't hold hands...

August 12, 2007

Custom Wood Cases for Your iPhone or iPod

This is going to be a must have when I finally trade in my old Razr phone the end of this month for my new iPhone. Minot makes handcrafted custom wood cases for the Apple iPhone and both the Apple 5g and nano2 iPods called "iWood". Offering several finishes to choose from and monogramming burnt into the wood this is a must have for any Apple fanatic. Prices for the iPhone protective cases start at $85.00 US; reasonable for handcrafting and for keeping your new toy in one piece if you drop it. Go to the Minot's site to see their full line of custom cases.

Hat tip to one of my favorite blogs for new cool stuff Boing Boing: A Directory of Wonderful Things

August 09, 2007

Tonight is the First Ever LGBT Presidential Debate

Tonight, August 9th, on the Logo Network, which Cox Communications Tulsa does not carry, will air the 2008 Democratic Party Presidential Debate regarding Gay and Lesbian rights issues. The two hour debate will be moderated by Margaret Carlson live in Los Angeles starting at 9 pm ET and 6 pm PT. For those wanting to view the debate but have restricted cable access, Logo Network in conjunction with The Human Rights Campaign will be simulcasting online the entire debate on their blog Visible Vote 08.

August 08, 2007

The Launch of Space Shuttle Endeavour

Space Shuttle Endeavor launched this evening for a two week stay in orbit working on the international space station. No word if breathalyzer test where performed before take off...

The End of My Summer Travels and Gay Dallas

Murphy's Law prevailed again for me these past few weeks. If it's going to happen to you it will happen when it's the hottest part of the summer. I have mentioned in my previous post that I would be spending some time traveling this month. To my surprise on my last trip home to East Texas I brought my Father back up for a two week visit. He thoroughly enjoyed his stay and working in the shop but at age 70 he was equally ready to get back home after his extended visit. I think he wanted to get back to his routine of breakfast in town at the crack of dawn with the farmers and business men at the local cafe. This past weekend I tacked an additional 700 miles onto my 1000 miles already spent driving in Texas bringing him back home and then spending the weekend in Dallas.

Of course the Dallas nightlife last weekend provided non-stop entertainment for me and my friend Buster, who tagged along for the ride and we were out till almost 3 am.  For those of you who have not visited Dallas in awhile or who have never ventured to the predominantly gay Oak Lawn area of the city do yourself a favor and go check it out. The hub of gay Dallas night life is on Cedar Springs and Throckmorton. J.R.'s located in the heart of the gay area of Dallas, on Cedar Springs road, has a great open balcony bar offering a spacious view of the entire strip. At night it is an ideal spot to check out the weekend crowd below. Having the quality both of a very nice open bar during the day and good club music and bartenders at night it's one of the more popular bars in the area.

Woody's down the street from J.R.'s is one of Dallas best Sports Bars and is full of hot and not so hot but still crazy gay fans during football season. If there are any other gay readers who just happen to like sports other than figure skating and you're in Dallas I would highly recommend a visit. If you are really looking for good dance music and a huge younger crowd that knows how to dance then you need to head over to Station 4. Providing a really cool light show, good music and a unique club layout it is an ideal place to burn off the stress from a busy week or in my case 6 hours sitting in a car. I ended my night in Dallas at the multiple awards winning Café Brazil just down the street from the clubs. Café Brazil won "Best Late Night Dining" and the huge Café Mocha I sobered up on was one of the best I have drunk in years.

Thankfully by 3 am Sunday morning I was back in my suite at The Renaissance Hotel in the Dallas Market Center area. Booking my stay through Priceline.com I ended up with a very nice room on the top floor with a perfect view of the Trinity River Valley cutting a green ribbon into the heart of the Downtown Dallas cityscape. It provided one of the best views of downtown I had seen ever and I was tempted to take a picture if it wasn't for the window glass. I arrived back home Sunday dead tired and sore from driving 700 miles in two days. I'm getting too old to stay out till 3 am then get up the next morning and drive 5 hours home to be honest. I had fun though!

Now August has come around and the entire region is forecast to have 100+ F degree days for the next week. It is hot in Tulsa but sizzling to the south in Dallas as summer sets in for the year. I plan on staying inside and sitting it out and not traveling again till the fall. The "Honey-Do's" that I have escaped from traveling so much the past two months have stacked up on me and I have a window between now and football season to get them all finished. Stays tuned for some of my projects online and go along with me on an adventure, trust me. In the meantime if you find yourself in Dallas this year and have a free night to have some fun do yourself and your friends a favor and head over the heart of Oak Lawn for the evening. Have a great time and leave with some good stories for your friends back home.

August 06, 2007

Monday Morning Humor - Strange Law

Chicken


A judge known for giving unusual sentences has ordered three men who pleaded guilty to soliciting sex to take turns dressing in a bright yellow chicken costume.

Painesville Municipal Judge Michael Cicconetti agreed to suspend a 30-day jail sentence if they wear the costume between 4 and 7 p.m. Friday outside the court while carrying a sign that reads "No Chicken Ranch in Painesville."

Rest of the Story with AP

August 02, 2007

Yeah it's August in Oklahoma

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Hot, humid and oppressive, welcome to Oklahoma in August. Ugh!

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